My time as an ESL teacher in China was a unique and challenging experience. It was a time of growth and learning, but also one of mixed emotions. I was fortunate to have worked with a diverse group of colleagues, and while some were outstanding, others, unfortunately, left a bitter taste in my mouth.
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The most memorable moment I had with my worst ex-pat colleague was during our first coffee break. We sat down in the office, and he began to share his story of how he arrived in China. He spoke of his struggles with the culture shock and the difficulty of finding a sense of belonging. I listened attentively, but I couldn’t help but feel a bit disappointed.
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It wasn’t until we began working together that the tension became palpable. My colleague, who we'll call "Mr. Li," would often come into my classroom and vent his frustrations. He would complain about the difficulties he faced in teaching and the constant barrage of language barriers. I tried to listen, but I couldn't help but feel like he was just trying to get me to understand the pain he was suffering. I knew that I had to do better, and I began to try to understand his perspective.
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As the semester progressed, Mr. Li would often come back to my office and apologize for his behavior. He would say things like, "I’m sorry, I’m just trying to make it work here." I knew that he meant it, but I couldn't shake the feeling that he was just putting up with me to avoid more conflict.
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One particular incident that stands out was when Mr. Li decided to leave my class before the end of the day. He didn’t even say goodbye, just leaving the classroom quietly. I tried to understand his decision, but I couldn’t shake the feeling that he was just giving up on me. I wanted to do better, but I couldn’t help but feel like I was not doing enough to support him.
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Despite the challenges, I had to try to maintain a positive attitude. I would try to laugh, try to smile, and try to be as supportive as I could. I would try to understand his perspective, even if I couldn’t agree with it. I wanted to make him feel seen and heard, even if I couldn’t make him understand me.
**Conclusion:**
My time with Mr. Li was a difficult one, but it was also a learning experience. I learned that even if we are not able to agree on everything, we can still make an effort to understand each other. I learned that even if we are not able to support someone, we can still be there for them, even if it’s just for a short time.
**Joke:**
I remember one time, I was working on a lesson with my colleague, and he said, "I’m just trying to make it work here." I thought to myself, "That’s a good attitude to have, but I’d rather have a good attitude to start with." (laughs)
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